How to fill in the My Panjabi Story Guided Book with your parent or grandparent.

Starting My Panjabi Story with your loved ones is more than just filling out a book – it’s a chance to connect, reflect, and preserve a lifetime of memories. Many customers ask us how best to approach it with their parents or grandparents. Here are a few simple ways to make the experience meaningful for everyone.

1. Treat it like quality time.

Think of this as more than writing – it’s family time. Make some chaa, sit together, and make it part of your weekly routine. The book is designed to spark conversations that flow naturally, so even if you don’t write everything in one sitting, you’ll still walk away with memories you’ll never forget.

2. Start with the easy chapters.

Sometimes the first step can feel daunting. Begin with lighter sections, like childhood games, favourite foods, or festivals. These bring out warm memories and often lead to deeper conversations later. Remember everybody's story is different and you can skip chapters that are not relevant to your elder.

3. Use the prompts as conversation starters.

Every question is written in English, Romanised Panjabi, and Gurmukhi, so your parents or grandparents can read the questions and respond in whichever language feels most comfortable. Read the prompts out loud, listen to their stories, and then write them down together. If they prefer, let them write in their own handwriting – that alone becomes part of the legacy.

4. Add photos along the way.

There are spaces to include family photos – whether it’s an old black-and-white portrait from the pind or a recent family gathering. These photos bring the stories to life and make the book an heirloom to treasure.

5. Take your time.

There’s no rush to finish the book in one go. Some families complete a chapter each month; others save it for special occasions like birthdays or anniversaries. What matters is the journey – the conversations, the laughter, and the memories you’re preserving together.